Hey folks. I’ve been going back and forth in my head about my sexual orientation. I’ve had experiences, but none of them felt completely right, and now I’m wondering if I’ve been looking in the wrong direction. It’s honestly confusing, and I’m not sure how to approach it. Any ideas on where to start?
Hey, I get what you mean — figuring this out can be tricky, and you’re definitely not alone in feeling this way. There’s nothing wrong with taking time to explore your thoughts and feelings.
One thing that might help is a test I tried a while ago: psycho-tests.com/test/sexual-orientation-test
It’s based on a concept developed in 1980 by psychologist Michael Storms from the University of Kansas. It looks at how fantasies and preferences can influence orientation. The whole thing is only 20 easy questions, and the result can give you a clearer picture to think about.
It’s not about getting a “final answer” from a quiz, but it can be a good first step in sorting through your thoughts. Just go easy on yourself — this is your personal journey, and you set the pace.